When looking for Oklahoma City Adoption, many birthmothers feel ashamed; like they are doing something wrong when giving their child up for adoption. Many people don’t understand how anyone could give up a child. After all, many single women have raised children. Many single women have raised a child in poverty. What they don’t seem to realize is that these birth mothers are actually doing what they do out of love, and the desire for their children to have a better life than they could provide. The one thing that a birth mother does need to realize is that you are in control right up until the moment that you sign the adoption papers. You have the say over everything that happens to your child, up until you sign on the dotted line.
There are many reasons to give your child up for adoption; here are a few of them:
- If you have drug and alcohol problems, and have no family support, then giving the child up may be your best option.
- An abusive home life that you can’t get out of, and would put you and the baby in danger, is another reason to consider adoption.
- If you are very young, still in school, then adoption may be the best decision for you and your child.
- Many birthmothers who become pregnant because of incest or rape take this option because they can’t think of any other option.
- If you feel that you have no parental instincts and cannot raise a child at this time, then it may be better for you to give the baby up to a family who is ready, and will love him.
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